Wait for the man that will put in the time, heart, and effort to pursue you. Wait for God to set you up with the one who will put in time to win your heart. How can He do that if you’re throwing it at him? Be secure enough in yourself and your Heavenly Father that you don’t need to throw your heart around and give it away to any man who winks at you. Be a woman, secure in God, deadly to the devil, feminine in strength, purity and tenderness. Give him the chance to be a man. Position yourself as a woman satisfied in herself and her life. Give yourself to know God more than knowing that man. Give yourself to loving others and he will come alongside of you. You will never have to strive to make him like you, to make him talk to you, and to treat you how you deserve to be treated. He will already be a man in pursuit of your heart without your help but God’s.