Friday, August 30, 2013

Chambray & Dots

Take Chances. Tell the Truth.
Date Someone Totally Right For You.
Say No. Spend All Your Cash.
Get To Know Someone Random.
Be Random.
Have Fun. Say I Love You. Sing Out Loud.
Laugh At Stupid Jokes.
Cry. Apologize.
Kiss Slowly.
Laugh Till Your Stomach Hurts.
Have Pillow Fights. Make S’mores.
Hold Hands. Smile Often.
While Out With Your Best Friends.
Live Life.

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Jersey Sleek

Stop comparing where you’re at with where everyone else is. It doesn’t move you farther ahead, improve your situation or help you find peace. It just feeds your shame, fuels your feelings of inadequacy, and ultimately, it keeps you stuck. The reality is that there is no one correct path in life. Everyone has their own unique journey to travel.

Monday, August 26, 2013

O Snapples She's Wearing Pineapples

Ladies the way a man treats you is directly indicative of how he really feels about you. Now, when I say “treats” I don’t mean the compliments he gives you, or the places he takes you out to eat, or some other innocuous or superficial thing. When I say “the way a man treats you”. It’s about how much of his life does he let you in. How much of his soul does he let you see. How much do you guys truthfully share. If you feel like he’s treating you like a jumpoff or a friend with benefits, it’s probably because that’s exactly what you are to him. If he shares his life, his world, his everything with you and treats you just how you deserve to be treated than that’s probably what you are to him “His Queen”. Ladies take notes and know your role in a that man’s life.

Wednesday, August 7, 2013

What's Love?

LOVE….we’re all looking for it right? You know that other half that makes us whole. The one who completes us and gives us googley eyes and butterflies; makes us want to get up in the morning to smell their stank breath and cuddle with, you know our soul mate.
Often times I sit back and think if everyone is so in love then why is everyone so hurt? Isn’t love supposed to make you feel the complete opposite of pain? Why are there so many divorces and bitter people if love is supposed to be one of the greatest feelings on Earth?
Could it be that people are all falling in love with the image of what society portrays as love. Are they measuring what they see and hear on TV as the radar of what love is supposed to look and feel like? Or is it that people are just staying together for all the wrong reasons? Comfortability…..Wealth……Finances……Appearance…..Pity……Guilt?
Are they really defining love by what it truly is? Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud, it does not dishonor. (1 Corinthians 13: 4-8)
I mean think about it, if there is a such thing as a true soul mate, wouldn’t that person be the yin to your yang? The salty to your sweet? Your best friend? Now, don’t get me wrong love does have it’s ups and downs, but in the end, it fights for itself it never fails. If TV and the media are the representation of what love is then boy…..we are all screwed.

Tuesday, August 6, 2013


Change…… if there is one thing in life that is guaranteed its CHANGE. Not sure exactly why this word is on my heart this morning but it is. I think so many of us in life are so afraid of change whether that’s moving, getting a new job, ending a relationship, starting a new one, or just simply changing or rearranging the look of our apartments or houses. What is it about change that makes us all so fearful? I truly believe as human beings we like stability; we like the assurance of things. What I mean by this is….. we like knowing what’s around the corner and what to expect, so we can properly prepare ourselves for whatever is next. So when change comes out of nowhere we get all frazzled and go hay wire. I remember my best friend always told me “People come and go and it’s the CHANGE that defines who we truly are” I have held that quote dear to my heart since the day he said it because it is so very true… Things happen in life; you fall out of love, you fight with your friends, you grow tired of doing the same things everyday, you get bored, you argue with your husband, you gain weight, you lose weight, you start a business, you dye your hair etc… It’s all just a natural part of life….it’s a part of change. It’s how we essentially deal with the change that really defines who are as people. So as I was searching for today’s quote I came across this one that really hit home for today’s topic on CHANGE hope you enjoy it.
If we don’t change, we don’t grow. If we don’t grow we aren’t really living. Things do not change; we change. The key to change is to let go of fear. Change will not come if you wait for some other person or some other time. When will your time for change come? When will you stop waiting for the perfect timing and go out and create that time for yourself? Stop sitting on your gifts, your talents, your abilities, your words. If you have to say something say it, if you want to do something do it. Time waits for no one. So go out there and change the world one second, one minute and one day at a time.

Monday, August 5, 2013

It's A Bandeau Scandal

Why live for the approval of men when you can have the approval of their Creator? What can they give you that God can’t?