Tuesday, April 8, 2014

A Midi Moment

Communication… such an easy word to say right?... but such a difficult word to incorporate in our daily lifestyles. O how important it is to have a strong line of communication in any relationship you have whether it be your father, mother, sister, brother, girlfriend, boyfriend, fiancĂ©, husband, wife and the list goes on and on. These are all relationships that require some line of communication. Now, I’m not talking about a simple hey… hello… but actually getting down to the nitty gritty how do you really feel? See, I think where we go wrong is we fail to communicate our truest feelings to the people that have hurt us, we allow time, circumstances, pride and even our attitudes get in the way. Thus propelling us into a resentful and angry state of mind kind of somewhere along the lines of “I told you I don’t want to talk about this anymore” boy aren’t we all guilty of saying those words. How you communicate determines your relationship. If you’re vague, nonchalant, untrustworthy, and angry well you can kind of expect for your relationship to be a mirror image of that, weathered, damaged and broken beyond repair. You see communication is a two way street and if those lines are not open how can you truly expect for that relationship to grow? I mean stop and really think about it…. your brain sends a signal to your stomach when you are hungry right? (communication) and what do you? You get something to eat to satisfy your hunger. Life and relationship is no different but we as humans tend to get it all confused when it really is just that simple. Communicate how you REALLY feel people, because your relationships will never grow if you keep ignoring your pain.


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