Time is never truly wasted. The point of life is to learn. Even if you were stuck in a bad relationship or a bad job for a long, long time it was the exact amount of time that was needed for the lesson to be learned. If when we were born, we received a guide to our lives that told us how long it would take to learn lessons about self-worth, changing people, and love it would make things a lot easier, but it would be like a crossword book with all the words already circled. There just wouldn’t be any point.